Bibliotherapy for Children

As a children’s librarian, I help children and parents find books.

“Miss Grace, where are the truck books?” and“Do you have princess books?” and “What historical fiction books would you recommend?” We look through the book shelves and pull out options and soon the family is on their way with their next fun read.

Occasionally, a parent asks me to help them find a book for their child on a difficult topic, such as the loss of a pet or the loss of a grandparent. Grief is sad, challenging, and frustrating for an adult to process and it may be overwhelming and confusing to find a way to discuss it with a child. A picture book may be a great vessel to open the conversation to these complex life circumstances. The term bibliotherapy refers to using books to help someone’s mental health. Children may relate to the story or find tools in the story to help them.

If you are looking for books on grief for children, I encourage you to read the book several times ahead of time to make sure it depicts the topic in a way that aligns with your values and how you want to share the topic with your child. If your family is in need of further help than bibliotherapy, consider seeking a mental health professional for additional resources.

The Mercer County Library System has children’s books that cover a variety of topics: 

Chronic Illness:

Brave Like Mom by Monica Acker 
Cancer Hates Kisses by Jessica Reid Sliwerski
The Remember Balloons by Jessie Oliveros

Grief:

The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr
Maybe Tomorrow? by Charlotte Agell
Missing Violet by Kelly Swemb 
Where Do They Go? by Julia Alvarez
Still Mine by Jayne Pillemer

Loss of Parent or Grandparent:

Boats for Papa by Jessixa Bagley 
Dance Like a Leaf by A. J. Irving
Granny Left Me a Rocket Ship by Heather Smith
One Wave at a Time: A Story about Grief and Healing by Holly Thompson
Saturdays are for Stella by Candy Wellins

Loss of Pet:

Chip by Federico Gastaldi
Harry and Hopper by Margaret Wild
Olive by Edwina Wyatt
A Stone for Sascha by Aaron Becker
Where Lily Isn’t by Julie Paschkis

By Miss Grace, Robbinsville Branch

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